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February 25th. I love it.

L.O.V.E.

First up this week, softball season starting. I love it. My team’s first games of the season were on Tuesday and Wednesday. Tuesday was a little rough but we played with heart and scored some runs. After knocking the rust off, Wednesday saw a huge improvement and we were well into the game until we were overtaken in the bottom of the 7th inning. This week we have 5 games so I’m hoping for our first wins of the season!

I love it.

Next up, babysitting. I love it. I especially love it when the baby is sleeping pretty much the whole time I was there and when my friends bring me special treats when they come home from their date night. Just in case anyone is wondering, I’m very available for babysitting and have a very low fee! Just saying.

I love it.

Finally, feeding birds. I love it. Considering all of the time I have spent at the aquarium, I have never gone to Parakeet Point to feed the birds. I had the opportunity to yesterday and it was super fun. The birds kept landing on me and eating but once I ran out of food, I did have one bird friend that decided to try to eat my fingers. I plan on doing this every time I go to the aquarium now.

I love it. It’s great. Everything’s great.

I love it.

February 18th. I love it.

Hooray for Mardi Gras and a whole week off of school!

First up this week, porgs. I love it. If you haven’t seen the newest Star Wars movie, you should go now. One of my favorite parts of the movie were these funny looking creatures that were all over the planet that Luke was on. It’s like an alien bird thing. I went to the Disney Store and found a stuffed one for $10 so I had to buy it.

I love it.

Next up, birthday festivities. I love it. Thursday was my birthday and there was no end of celebration. On my actual birthday I went to dinner with Diana and Tiffany and then Tiffany and I saw Black Panther. So good. Friday I got ice cream with my favorite girls. Saturday I went to the Tulane baseball game and they won in walkoff fashion and today I went to the zoo with even more friends. So much fun. Year 28 is going to be fun.

I love it.

Finally, breaking a board. I love it. For my birthday at Tae Kwon Do, I got to break my “birthday board.” It’s as fun as it sounds. And I got to keep the board and everyone signed it.

I love it. It’s great. Everything’s great.

I love it.

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Once Upon a Bookshelf – Lily and Dunkin

Lily and DunkinLily and Dunkin by Donna Gephart

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I’ve been putting off writing this review because I wanted to do it right.

Lily is a girl. Or at least, wants to be a girl. Her real name is Timmy and after struggling with her identity for as long as she remembers, she finally decides that she will be Lily full-time in 8th grade. Unfortunately, despite having support from her mother and sister, her father is not on board.

Dunkin is a boy. His real name is not actually Dunkin. It’s Norbert and he hates it. He’s just moved to Florida with his mom. He met Lily inadvertently when she burst out of her house in her mom’s dress and sandals and he thought she was pretty. Lily nicknamed him Dunkin because he’s obsessed with Dunkin donuts.

They spend the summer together, never really revealing the truth about themselves to each other. Dunkin finds himself in with the basketball team when school starts and his relationship with Timmy (she actually didn’t go through with being herself once school started) goes sour. Dunkin finally faces the truth of what brought him to Florida and Lily is tired of hiding.

Can they help each other embrace who they are?

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Lily and Dunkin is one of those books that is unsuspecting on the surface but once you get into the guts of it, it will leave a profound influence on how you think of transgender kids and also kids with mental illnesses.

Gephart does a fantastic job of painting transgender teens and their struggles. Throughout the book, Lily knows who she is but is afraid to let her light shine. It also brings forth the realities of kids that are too afraid to come out as transgender. One of the most touching parts of the book is when Lily’s father (who refuses to accept that she is a girl) finally caves and lets Lily get the hormone blockers she needs (so she doesn’t go through puberty as a boy). Lily asks what changed his mind and he said that the psychiatrist they met with told him the figures of transgenders kids that commit suicide because they feel like they don’t belong.

Dunkin’s story, while less intense on the surface, is just as interesting. Throughout the book, he wonders about where his father is and wishes he were back home with his best friend Phineas. It’s not until the end of the book that you find out that Dunkin is actually bi-polar. His best friend Phineas is make-believe. His lack of medicating himself finds him in the hospital where the truth of his father’s death comes to light.

I can’t gush enough about this riveting story. It was so well written and pertinent to kids and adults today.

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Once Upon a Bookshelf – The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck.

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good LifeThe Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I think the only way to tell you about this book is to share some of my favorite bits of wisdom from Mark Manson.

1. Happiness requires struggle. It grows from problems. Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for.

2. There is no such thing as a personal problem. If you have a problem, chances are someone else has it too.

3. Certainty is the enemy of growth. Nothing is certain until it happens and even then, it’s debatable.

4. Don’t just sit there. Do something. The answers will follow.

5. Sometimes you think you want something but it turns out you don’t.

6. We don’t actually know what a positive or negative experience is.

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February 11th. I love it.

Despite the fact that I was home sick all week, there is still some love!

First up this week, “ER.” I love it. Like I said, I was sick so I managed to watch 2.5 seasons of “ER” in 7 days. Not bad work. It also made me realize that I will not be able to do anything productive at home (like homework) until I finish all 15 seasons. Challenge accepted.

I love it.

Next up, getting my new belt. I love it. Last week I tested for my level 1 green belt in tae kwon do and I passed! The belt ceremony was on Wednesday so I am officially official. Everyone in my class is really excited that I get to start sparring now (they’re all black belts so I am freaking out). Wish me luck!

I love it.

Finally, homemade chili. I love it. I wanted to use my crockpot today so I spent (way too much) time on Pinterest and found a really healthy chili recipe. I’ve never actually made chili in a crockpot and I didn’t know if the recipe would be good but I’m actually really impressed with myself. I improvised a few things (and already have some suggestions from someone who didn’t even try any) so next time it will be even better.

I love it. It’s great. Everything’s great.

I love it.

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The Anxiety Cycle

This morning I woke up feeling icky. Icky, in this sense, meant that I had a headache and a stomachache that made getting out of bed really hard. That may seem like I was sick this morning I thought so too. So naturally I called off work, wrapped myself in my blankets, and went back to bed.

I woke up again around 11am and still had a pretty terrible headache. My stomach felt better but not perfect so I had breakfast and read my book. By the time that was done, my headache was gone, but my stomach was in knots. It was about this time that I realized I was not naturally sick, but I had started what I like to call “The Anxiety Cycle.”

My anxiety always starts off in harmless ways. I think I’m sick and obviously overthink it which doesn’t make it any better (I’m not going to say I’m a hypochondriac but I’m also tend to worry about minor things). Then, once I realize that medicine won’t make me feel better, I start to think it’s anxiety. Then I start trying to identify the problem. Am I worried about work I have to do? Am I worried about something social I have to do today?

After thinking of all of the reasons I’m anxious, I decide to do something about it. I work on things that are on my to-do list. I clean my house. I binge read a book.

And when that doesn’t work?

I realize that most of my anxiety is something I can’t recognize on a regular basis so I’m just going to have to live with it.

So here I am, stuck in the vicious Anxiety Cycle.